November Newsletter, 2025
In 1986 Robert Fulghum wrote a collection of short essays entitled, “All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten.” He used simple, kindergarten-level lessons to explore profound truths about life, love and human behavior. The book, which became a #1 New York Times bestseller, argues that fundamental principles like sharing, playing fair and cleaning up your own mess are the keys to a balanced and meaningful life. He also includes; don’t hit people, don’t take things that aren’t yours, say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody; and one of my favorites, warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
In many respects, I agree whole heartedly with Mr. Fulghum. We need more of what he’s serving. But I would like to add another truth that my Irish mother drilled into my young brain as I collected my lunch bag and jacket and headed out the door for school. I can still see her brown eyes flashing whenever I wanted something or received something as she asked, “What do you say, Richard?”
“Please” or “Thank you” was the answer she was looking for. She would not have her son, ill-mannered. I was taught to say, please and thank-you.
Now, it’s never too early to teach your kids to say please and thank-you and learn good manners. As soon as they start talking you can start teaching. Encourage your child to thank people who help them. Share what you are grateful for with your children. Donate to others and get involved in charitable organizations. Be consistent. Like all skills gratitude and saying “thanks” is not learned in one lesson. Don’t make the mistake of waiting until your kids are older to teach them to be thankful.
Personally, I’m taking time to be thankful on a daily basis. My relationship with the Lord Jesus; my wife, Charlote and my daughter, Dayna and her husband, Durward and my grandsons, Grant and Will are my greatest blessings. I cherish them. I thank God for them. I have friends. I have health. I have strength. I have humor. I have entertainment. I have weather. I have provision. I have protection. I have intelligence. I have mobility. I have hobbies. I have peace. I have joy. I have contentment. I have purpose. I have value. I have identity.
“I am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual.”
Henry David Thoreau
And let me close by saying “Thank You!” You are a part of this ministry and because of your faithful prayers and financial support we are able to improve lives with the truth of God’s love, acceptance and forgiveness.
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